Arbaugh Family: Half-day Session in the Morning
I often get asked, "What does a family documentary session look like?" or "What is it?" when I tell people what my niche is in. They are often more curious about what the photos will look like at the end. So I put together two slideshows to help answer those questions.
These are two half-day sessions. The first session is of the Arbaugh family in their home doing their morning routine. The second session is of the Hood family doing their evening routine. The half day and full day sessions are strictly documentary. I photograph what unfolds, whether it’s laughter, tears or a tantrum, nothing goes unnoticed!
I often get requests for these sessions from moms who are the only picture takers in their family. They often tell me, “I am never in any pictures. I just want pictures of me being with my kids. I’m always the one taking pictures with my phone. I want something with me to put in my scrapbook, since I spend the most time with them.” Those statements are exactly why I do family photojournalism to help moms feel like an important part of their family! Because trust me they are the glue that keeps everything together!
*Hint to the husbands: Mother's Day isn't that far away and this type of session is the perfect gift for your wife!
So is this type of session something you would do? If so, I would love to get to know your family! Or you can take a peek at my FAQs if you still have any questions. Also, you find more about pricing here.
Hood Family: Half-day Session Evening
Like adults kids just want to be seen, heard and loved. They want to feel like they belong. And I'm not just talking about when they are at school and with friends, but family too. Was there ever a time you didn’t feel like you belonged within your family?
There were times I felt like the black sheep, but I knew my family still loved me. One of the ways I knew they loved me was through photos. I saw photos of me and my family around the house smiling, laughing and hugging each other everyday! It was important to my mom that she honored the time we spent together because these photos were a display of love.
So here are 5 awesome reasons why you should print your photos and add them to your home's decor, if not for you than at least to honor the love you have for your children!
Kids Learn About Where They Come From
Did you have maternity photos done? I did. I have them around the house in frames. When my son first noticed these photographs he asked “why is your belly so big?” I said “that’s because you are in my belly growing into a baby.”
Of course, the conversation stemmed from there and we talked about how mommy’s grow babies in their bellies, so on and so forth. Don’t worry we didn’t have the birds and bees talk yet. He’s only three! That time will come, but not now, not now.
Here are some of the things we talked about.
They Learn Their Place in the Family
When I read that sub-header I thought of some angry father yelling at their child saying stuff like “you will know your place and follow my rules because you live under my roof!” But that’s definitely not what I mean here.
What I mean is simple. They learn that mom and dad are their parents and that they are loved by them! They also learn that mom and dad are their safe place. A place where they can talk about when they are hurt, sad, mad or happy! A simple family photograph can remind them of this concept because can understand that just from a little photograph.
They Learn About Genealogy and Structure of a Family
Often family portraits are not just of mom, dad and children. Many families take photos with grandparents, great grandparents and aunts and uncles. So get a couple of extra prints of those extended family portraits and build this cute family tree for your scrapbook (coming soon).
Use this project as a teaching tool. It'll help your child understand how the family structure works. You can talk about where mom and dad came from and what aunts and uncles are.
Photographs Show Children that They are Respected and that Time Together is Honored
I’m sure you have some photos where the boyfriend was cut out or ripped off and you threw them into a fire to watch them burn! Wait, is that only in the movies? We, and movies, do this because that photo honored a time in our life that we want to forget. So having photos of mom and dad holding each other or kissing each other honors their relationship together and the fact that they have photos together shows they respect one another.
The same goes for having your children in photographs. It shows a child you respect them and the time you spent with them. It reinforces the positive memories with your child and honors that memory by displaying it on a wall for them to see everyday. It’ll remind them that spending time with family is important and fun!
Which leads to the next point.
Putting a Family Photo in the Child’s Room Reinforces the Sense of Belonging and Importance of Family.
I am actually guilty of not having family photos in my son’s room and I blame Pinterest! I blame Pinterest because they have all these cute baby rooms that are themed and when you’re designing your nursery you’re not thinking about family photos. All your thinking about is the cute design and how can it be perfect for them. I don't remember one single Pinterest idea having family photos in the room.
I wonder without photos in the child’s room are we encouraging an importance of material things like toys and movies? Lots of baby and kids room are themed with Disney movies or cartoons or stuffed toys and is not family oriented. I would love to see themes that include more family photos, even if it's just of the parents holding baby's first toy. I think that is an idea for a future project and blog post.
I know most of us take pictures on our smartphones, but what do you do with those pictures later? How often do you review those pictures? If you are anything like me (before I became a professional) you may have looked back at them once a year. You only did that when you were trying to free up storage space.
I think there are very few us that actually print them. If you don’t print them you should at least review them. It’s another way to show your child that you honor them and what they were doing when you took the photo. Hopefully, you share those photos with them as much as you share them on your Facebook and Instagram account.
Places you can print your smartphone photos:
On the Shutterfly app you can print unlimited 4x6 prints. You have no excuses now!
For higher quality, but affordable prints check out Social Print Studio. They also have an app where you can print photos right from your phone.
So how many family photos do you have in your house?
Do you have any in your child's room?
Tell me about your favorite ways to display photos in the comments below.
Until next time!
Thanks to the Arbaugh family for scheduling a half day session with me to capture their morning routine. It was amazing to see such a big, loving family just having a great time!
Documentary photography is for everyone and for everything. It’s the type of photography that stirs up emotions and looks at life for what it really is.
I know that "being in the moment" is hard when you have distractions like the dishes, laundry, email, work, school and a mile long list of “to do’s”. But there are so many times that we are missing the real moments with our kids because we are thinking about so many other things.
However, if you are anything like me, you stop to play a quick game of tag or a picnic with the teddies, all the time! I have a billion photos of my husband and son in those moments, but rarely of me. Wouldn't you like a photo with your children doing the things you normally do? Wouldn't you want a photo of the memories you'll actually have? I do, I want that! (Raising my hand with enthusiasm!)
1. Capture REAL moments!
You'd be surprised all the stuff you miss and frankly ignore as a parent. It's just something we learn to do to survive, haha! But kids are weird and hysterical.
Seriously, they are a crack up! It's those weird things that we remember the most. We'll tell their boyfriends and girlfriends later on and use photos of our kids in bath tubs to embarrass their future wife or husband.
Although, I think the most important point about all these memories is that we, as parents, were there too. We reacted. So you should be able to look back at those moments and be represented too.
2. We do a "day in the life" session for our wedding day and that's it!
Then for the rest of our lives we have this need to get fall portraits done every year. You know for the Christmas card and to hang one more portrait of us in matching outfits on the wall.
Ok, don't take this the wrong way because I do love a good portrait (I am a photographer after all), but it's not a real representation of you and how you'll be remembered.
How often do you coordinate outfits on a normal day? (Uh I have to say for me, NEVER.)
Do your kids enjoy portrait day? (Mine doesn't)
Is it stressful for you? (Yes, yes, yes!)
Oh and do your kids remember anything significant about that day? (Nope, except for the ice cream I got him after).
Then why do we insist on doing this every year? Let's relax and enjoy our time with our kids and have someone else capture the fun!
3. You're on your phone enough
This kind of relates to number 2 and I can't say it enough that smartphones do not compare to professional cameras, especially when printing photos.
Like many parents, you are busy, very busy. The smart phone is what you have on you and yes portrait mode is pretty amazing! However, have you ever tried to print a large photo from your phone. They are awful! Phones still don't match professional cameras when it comes to mega pixels and the right lenses make all the difference. Smartphone cameras only go so far and don't you want to be in the photo too?
Also, professional photographers have hours of education under their belt in order to make those amazing shots and hours of practice. Last year alone I took over 30,000 photos. That’s a lot of practice!
As a parent you don’t have a lot time to learn how to take really amazing photographs that a professional can get. So hire one for vacations, for parties and for regular days. Anything really. The photos will be better quality and won't be stuck or lost on your phone.
4. Get back to making memories instead of taking them.
How many of these milestones and events in your life are you missing from the pictures? Birthdays? Baptisms? Vacations? Day trips? Baby shower? And the list goes on.
Get back to being there, being in the moment, being a family. Because you don’t want your child to be asked what they remember of you during their birthday and they say “mommy was on her phone.” Make memories and let someone else worry about taking them.
5. What kind of legacy do you want to leave for your children?
Family legacies are “a set of beliefs, values, and attitudes that are passed down from generation to generation through the messages that children receive from their parents,” according to the Center for Parenting.
Some families believe that money is the only legacy you can leave behind, but a legacy is more than that. A legacy can be someone who makes history, who is a leader or who makes a difference in their children lives.
So how does your legacy look? How will it be captured? Is it wall of posed portraits or real moments of the legacy your leaving your family?
Ready for a different kind of photo session? Shoot me an email and tell me all about the memories you want to make and legacy you want to leave!